Sexting examples for women
What is sexting again?
The Urban dictionary says:
Sexting – the act of text messaging someone in the hopes of having a sexual encounter with them later; initially casual, transitioning into highly suggestive and even sexually explicit
So you want to have sex with him? or do you really like him and you want to use sexting to reel him in? It makes sense right? Guys are super sexual, so why not use sexting to get his attention?
Simple, because guys really don’t want you to do this
- Guys are most attracted to women that value their sexuality
- Guys are most attracted to girls they have to chase
- Guys are most attracted to (long term) girls that appear virginal but are not
- Guys are most attracted to a challenge, someone difficult
- Guys are most attracted to intelligence, someone they can connect to
Now I imagine that some guys would deny this and say it is the physical that draws them the most. (Exactly what you are dishing out with sexting) This isn’t true at all, the physical is very powerful for guys but for long term, real, superglue like bonding attraction; it’s all in the head.
So am I telling you that sexting is a bad idea? Yes and no, first I want you to redefine what sexting is. It is not some cheap picture of your boobs, it is a way to create long term attraction. Fortunately texting is really incredible for building attraction.
Here are some tips to really become amazing at true sexting
NEVER be overly sexual when texting a guy, hint but don’t say!
You: Been thinking about you…
Him: really? What have you been thinking?
You: Just want to @#$% again!!
Him: Wow, that sounds good
You: When I get to your house I am going to #$%# until you !##%^ on my !#!@$!#.
Him: Wow… (he is watching TV and could care less)
Come on!! You know better than this!! You really think this is a tease? If you are sexting a high school guy possibly! I know you are into him but you can’t let them know that! Have you ever seen the movie Alien? Do you know what made that so scary? You never really saw the monster, just brief flashes in dark rooms! In later movies they showed way too much of our watermelon headed friend and the movies lost their tension. Don’t give this away! Give them brief glimpses of your passion. Don’t lay it out on the table like your neighbor’s cat in heat, it just isn’t sexy.
Be the one to end the conversation
Him: Hey, it was good to see you last night
You: Yes I know, I could tell you are really into me
Him: You are so full of yourself!
You: So you are saying you don’t like me?
Him: I don’t know I am thinking about it.
You: Don’t hurt yourself!
Him: Yeah thinking about you does hurt a little
You: lol, hey my friend is here. Talk to you later.
Him: okay, text me later
You: I don’t know I will think about it!
Being the one to end the conversation is an excellent sexting technique that shows you are busy and in demand. Even if you are planning a night alone with your cat, keep the conversation short and bail out after a few minutes. When a girl likes a guy and vice versa it is so tempting to sext a sexual/verbal dump, let him make that mistake, not you. Left to its own design the person that is the least interested usually breaks off the conversation. You want to make sure that is always you.
Never chase a guy over text – Probably the biggest mistake ladies make not only with sexting guys, but in creating relationships with them. Many kick and fight against this concept but have you honestly ever had this work out? Have you ever been assertive with a guy and had him reciprocate your interest? The reason why is because this is the MALE role not the female. If you are the one chasing him over text or in person he sits back and lets you do all the work, then he does his best to sleep with you and disappears shortly after. This is the main reason why blatant sexting doesn’t work.
You: Hey Jim, miss your sexy voice
Jim: Hey… What’s up?
You: Hopefully YOU the next time I see you!
Jim: Yeah sounds good (imagine him rolling his eyes)
You: So when are you free to come over and see me??
Jim: Yeah, hey, I am super busy this week. Is next week okay? (coward)
You: Oh, okay. Sorry to bother you.
Pathetic no? Throwing yourself sexually on a guy rarely works. Let him act like the horny ass, you should be playing the virginal roll until he decides to make more of a commitment.
Don’t allow texting sex talk – You know how men start sexting dirty right away, or look for some lame excuse to text something nasty? This is because men need to filter women, is she sex material or relationship material? If you respond overly soon with dirty sexting, guess which category you will fall into. I imagine you want to be considered relationship material NOT sex material. This is why you need to ignore or even get upset with his constant inappropriate sexting. Resisting in this area does two positive things: you are taken more seriously and pushed into the relationship category AND believe it or not sexual tension is built simply by resisting it. So even if you want to rip his clothes off and devour every sweaty inch of him, error on the side of caution! and never virtually flash your boobs.
GIRLS: Playful funny is the best way to text a guy
Me: Hey you looked really cute the other day.
Her: You did too, it is hard to imagine you are over 30!
Me: Hey!! At least I hit puberty already!
Her: lol, Maybe that is why I have such a cute amazing figure.
Me: More like that is why you never grew any boobs! ☺
Her: God… I knew you were staring at my chest last time we talked, How tacky…
Me: No I wasn’t!?
Her: Hey I got to go, text me later…
Me: K… are you mad?
Playful funny is an adaptation of David DeAngelo’s “cocky funny” advice to men. Cocky is not a very attractive female trait but playful is. Girls, when sexting a guy be more more passively funny, playfully giving him fuel to entertain with a dash of brattiness to raise the bar. In the above text I got beat up a bit, which was incredibly attractive! Did you notice too that she didn’t pull any punches at the end of the text? She left, leaving me totally off balance. Was she upset with me? Was I really staring at her chest? When does she want me to text her? She is totally in control and I am going to have to step up a bit to meet her texting level. Perfect job on her part.
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Waiting for someone to write something interesting or begin a conversation. It’s easy after that, but the waiting is the most uncomfortable for obvious reasons !!!!!!!!
Tell me about it Dan… but my guy keeps wantng me to start it…. idk what to say :/
I hate when guys lagg while the convo is interesting
I’m new to this but I like the sound of it!
This is sooo boring. If you want some real tips let me know!
waiting for Margaret’s tip
Yes!! I want some good tips!! My man works offshore and I wanna send him some good sexting!!!
Can someone help me with writing a nice hot sexy text to my boyfriend. He works off shore and will be gone for 3 weeks. Lol I’m not too good at this.
Those are some very good examples I think I will really improve on my sexting habbits thanks .
Need sex been a year
Hi ladies, I’m new here but if I point myself in the right direction I’m sure to get there I guess. I’m not middle aged and I have a pretty nice body and I’m not so bad to look at either. I’m looking for a sexting relationship with pics and vids at times. Any gals interested?
Duh! I’m up for it anytime! Especially if you have HUGE tits, then I’m up for it!
I am so horny.
My man keeps asking me what I want him to do to me when we text. And idk what exactly to say. He likes alot of details and I just don’t know how to do that I guess. Any help
See the sexting examples here, Kat. There are many good examples in the comments.
Thats a nice one 😉
Don’t tell me this is meant serious …
Sure, acting overly sexual in inappropriate moments isn’t a good idea, but your hints are neither. Making things that complicated is completely unnecessary. I like women knowing always what they want … games, like those from your “tips” are just the perfect way to turn every good guy away. You’ll end up quickly with the ones that virtually (at least) stuff you, before placing you in their trophy room.
Sexually confident girls and women often scare those people away, at least more than a girl just being cocky while sticking to stupid rules written in questionable books (they know those books too). It’s all about making connections.
Agreed, sexual attraction shouldn’t be the base, but it’s nonetheless important. The emotional and intellectual connection is imho the most important … and establishing such a connection is completely impossible with childish and annoying games featured in this piece of writing.
They might work with insecure high-school lads, but that’s about it. Not that it would help anything, because it’s almost impossible to switch to a stable emotional relationship after such a start. The poor girl will end up with stuff she wanted to prevent in the first place before getting getting badly hurt ultimately.
I am a female who just started sexting n I’m hooked! I need guys to sext with n maybe listen a little, but don’t have to. I like “naughty” not “nice” sexting has changed my life! I never have sex with my husband n have no relation with him. I can’t remember the last time I had an orgasm n sexting has made me wake up in the night with an orgasm! OMG !!! Total life change. I want to start now:) Very horny today. Grrrrrrrr
I’m new to setting, but here are some I’ve used:
1) Baby, I’m having trouble driving a stick, can I practice on yours?
2) Thong, miniskirt, see-thru blouse, watch. Did I forget anything?
3) Tonight, no kids, no panties, no rules
My man is working offshore right now. We have had sex before so it’s not the same as some of these sexting. I wanna send him 1 nice long sexy text from me but I’m not too sure on how to do this. Y’all have some hot sexy stuff here so maybe y’all can help?? Thanks!!
Helen, here you go:
Hows my working man
I can barely drag myself to shower with you so far away my body hasnt stopped screaming for you since you left.
Showers only make it worse imagines of you caressing my body as you kiss my breast, ooo damn I want you so bad you make me feel so good
I thrust you into my mouth and suck your c*ck as if it was a water well and I was lost in the desert dehydrated for days your hard c*ck a perfect fit for my thirst in and out I devour your c*ck, my life line, bringing me to life
deeper and deeper i take you in more and more I can’t get enough
deeper and deeper I take you in my mouth
as I scream for more you can’t take anymore and the well releases deep in my throut gushing my dry body mmmmmmm pure exstacy as I swallow
licking every drop
Hey!! I love your example…. wow!!! very clever and sexy!
I AM A GUY, I DON’T GET CARRIED AWAY BY GIRLS EASILY NO MATTER WHAT.